Sri Gurubhyo Namaha
This is my own two cents to a question which was asked to me by a friend – “Why is
a Guru/Satsanga necessary for Moksha? Is it not sufficient if we have access to the teachings through mp3s?”. Naturally Vedanta saadhakas can find this easier to understand.
All glory to the teachers!
Thus adhyaaropa apavaada is not only a theoretical prakriya, but it is also an experiential prakriya, in the sense that the vision of the individual keeps on changing into subtler and grander understanding
1. So coming back to the seeker in the initial stages, to one whose mind is turned outward always, the first treatment would be to provide a living example of a jivanmukta in the world (which alone is real for him at this initial stage). The shock of finding someone who lives without money or pleasures is something too much to believe in unless it is really seen. This is not at all apparent through mp3s or any other indirect media. The very presence of the Guru and his lifestyle gradually changes the psychology of the shishya from being a outward-looking person to one who seeks no support outside himself. This is one of the main reasons I feel a Guru is necessary. This presence or its memory will be fresh in the mind of a spiritual seeker till the end of his lifetime. All mp3s or read words can be forgotten but nobody can forget a big and powerful (definitely mental if not physical) presence of the Guru in the seeker’s mind
2. Furthermore, atma-gyaana is basically a process of ego-destroying (by understanding) and not accumulation of objective knowledge. How does one know that the ego is destroyed (so to speak)? It is only by the absence of need towards kaamini and kaanchana. “Clean langoti and empty pocket”, as our teachers often used to say. Individuality is strongly imbibed in these two needs, so whenever they crop up one should know that individuality is still strong. One may know the teaching in and out in the intellectual sense, but unless the need for kaamini and kaanchana is given up, there is no end to sorrow (individuality) and moksha remains far away. Hence to break this, a powerful presence which does not give in to kaamini or kaanchana is needed around us. For this also a Guru is important.
3. Then there is also the practical necessity of a physical person as a teacher. It is well known that sitting in classes in person is far better (in general) than seeing videos or listening to audio. This is true with respect to worldly or spiritual knowledge. It is much more easier to concentrate and grasp what the teacher is saying when it is in person. The points of stress come across much better. So for these reasons also a Guru is important.
4. Yet another reason is once again concerned with the nature of knowledge as ego-destroying. This directly implies complete humility and surrender. It is my personal conviction that without falling at the feet of a live Guru, the ego will constantly remain strong. The mind will give innumerable number of excuses on why the ego has to remain alive and strong. On the other hand, when a seeker does complete surrender to one person who is the epitome of spiritual life and Atmagyaana, then his mind will find shaanti in being under his shadow. There is nothing like this shaanti. This surrender is far more powerful than surrender to the Lord (whom we cannot see as a live person in general), because surrender to the Guru means that the reigns of one’s life (body-mind) is given to the Guru. Ishwara cannot come to us and say, “You have to do this”. But a Guru can say so. And his directions are to be obeyed implicitly, because only that is true surrender. Thus, such a surrender is key to the weakening of the ego and its final sublation/destruction through self-knowledge.
5. Another reason is that there is truly nobody except the Guru who is really our well-wisher. The Guru alone has no axe to grind in this world. He has no reason to either teach or guide the seeker, but he still does without any expectation. It is only wise that the seeker finds and submits to such a Guru.
6. Another important reason is that the manana process of Vedanta vichaara which comes after shravana necessitates the presence of a live Guru. Every person has doubts about the Vedanta tattva, and no two have the same set of doubts. To eliminate these doubts a physical person is very much essential. The manana process is not a one-way street like listening from mp3s.